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This is because demisexuality does describe a situation where you only experience sexual attraction in limited circumstances. They might not necessarily love the person — whether romantically or platonically — at all. This naming scheme is incredibly common. Because I don't think I could. I initially identified as straight because I mostly fell in love with and engaged people of my then identified opposite sex I'm transgender though I was de,isexual stumped when people said stuff like "I'd fuck that person because of XYZ body part" or such, but I played along because the person did look attractive and we were clearly not attracted to the same things?

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What separates pansexuality from demisexuality in theory? Would a pansexual for example be turned on by an intersex person's junk and a transsexual's junk pre-SRS without first having a strong emotional connection to that person? For some demisexual people, it may be friendship — including platonic friendship. They might just choose not to act on it.

Wait, why does that need a oansexual I have felt sexually attracted to someone I was close to such as a friend or romantic partner. It may also depend on how much a demisexual person identifies with the wider asexual community.

What does it mean to be demisexual?

And since, the dating site OkCupid has officially recognized demisexuality and has allowed its users to select it as a sexual orientation on their profile. Can you apply a gender orientation to this? On the other hand, people argue that demisexuality falls under the asexual banner. It is up to the individual to describe which labeling scheme works for them. People yoj the term edmisexual as a useful tool to describe their identity and how it might differ from other identities.

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Demisexual people experience attraction to a select group of people. Karen Who uses demisexual? I identify as demisexual because, other than my girlfriend, I'm pretty much asexual but I'm very very definitely sexually attracted to her. This is a common misconception.

That said, some demisexual people might choose to wait a while before having sex with a romantic partner — but this is independent of their sexual orientation. There are sites, blogs, and articles dedicated to discussing this sexuality. You can be sexually attracted to someone without having sex with them, and you demsiexual have sex with someone without actually feeling attracted to them.

But now I wonder if demisexual is perhaps more correct based on how it's identified on AVEN as simply just sexual attraction to anyone that you have a strong emotional connection to. The demipansexual flag consists of three stripes, pink, representing attraction to women, yellow representing attraction to non-binary people, and blue, representing attraction to men along with 3 other colors, in which black represents asexuality, gray represents gray-asexuality and demisexuality, and white represents sexuality.

Being demisexual looks different to different people.

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My emotional connection with someone affects whether I feel sexually attracted to them. Demisexuality makes frequent appearances online. March 10, Well, I identify as both demisexual and heterosexual so I guess a major difference would be that a demisexual person can have a gender preference. Being demisexual for me at least does not mean that I become sexually attracted to every person that I'm romantically attracted to and involved with but that I need to be so involved with a person before I can even begin to develop sexual feelings for them.

In other words, demisexual people only experience sexual attraction after an emotional bond has formed. Other people may have different views about what it means to them.

That much is apparent with my current partner in that I find only her attractive, and the idea of doing it with another woman turns me off. Demisexuality is a sexual orientation where people only experience sexual attraction to folks that they have close emotional connections with. I have read up on both and I'm honestly quite confused. This is different to seldom experiencing sexual attraction. A pansexual person usually doesn't have a gender preference with their sexual attraction but, unlike a demisexual person, they may be able to have instant crushes or to feel sexually attracted to someone they have only met once etc.

This question is cause pansexula a lot of debate in the asexual, graysexual, and demisexual communities. So yes, you can be demisexual and also homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, heterosexual, and so on — whatever best describes your individual orientation.


Someone who is only sexually attracted to one or two close friends or partners, demisexuaal not often and not intensely, might identify strongly with graysexuality or asexuality. Share this post. Somebody who tends to feel intense sexual attraction toward nearly all of their closest friends and partners — but not toward acquaintances or strangers — might feel that they are demisexual but not asexual at all.

Does this orientation fit under the asexual umbrella? Demisexual people only experience sexual attraction after a close emotional ge has formed.


I hope this helps! The demipansexual flag. I'm attracted mainly to female-identified people but I'm only sexually attracted to one of my three partners I'm also polyamorous. I very newly ID as demi and this is my own interpretation of what it means to be demisexual. The opposite panzexual asexual is sexual, also referred to as allosexual. For example, some people might use a label like panromantic romantically attracted to people regardless of their genderand so dfmisexual entire identity might be called something like panromantic demisexual.

An asexual person experiences little to no sexual attraction. After a while though, I was trying out the asexual label and then demisexual and then when I realized my gender identity I became gay, and when I fell in love with amd outside of my preferred gender it just confused the hell out of me and I was considering pansexual because that seemed appropriate - the love for everyone right?

Demipansexual people can also have a separate romantic identity, or identify as demipanromantic.